Heterosexual Marriages versus Same-Sex Ones

Although marriage is quiet complicated topic to write and discuss, same-sex marriage is another part of it that is controversial. We covered this week the definition of marriage, marriages' relations to politicians whim and finally and most importantly we tried to find an answer whether or not same-sex marriages are justifiable.

In my opinion, it is completely related to the norms of society which are shaped by customs and rituals. Today , same-sex marriage is illegal for the majority of the world. However, gay and lesbian relationships are accepted and tolerated. Cohabition rather than getting married is the best chance that homosexuals have. In my point of view, homosexuals have no difference compared to heterosexuals. They all act like ordinary people, have jobs, family etc. Therefore, I should say we must not ignore homosexuals, respect their choices and. However, I am defeated by culture. I want to ask this question: Which of you do not feel uncomfortable when you see a gay couple kissing in public?

By the way, I did some research on Internet and unsurprisingly, I found out that some countries which legislated same-sex marriage are Netherlands, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, Belgium, Spain and Canada.

Finally, this video summarizes briefly our culture's view to same-sex marriages :)

Marriage and what does it mean actually?

In general term, marriage is the unity of a single man and woman in order to share a common life. However, its

concept can gain different meanings depending on the cultural and historical content of one's society.

First of all, if we look at the men's point of view marriage is a essential part of their life for sustaining their generation. It is a crucial element to fulfill their dreams likewise a peaceful home, children and even grandsons and daughters.
In the women's point of view marriage gains wider meaning compared to men. In olden times, teenage women must marry someone who is rich and able to provide them goods. On the other hand, it is important for them to get rid of her parents' excessive pressure and gain independence
Today, the situation is different. Women are not willing to marry someone because most of them think that they have great deal of indepence and after marriage it can be restraint by their husbands or other problems, such as home or childcaring.